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Why I was Afraid To Change

Change, who likes change?  The thought of changing can cause some people to become paralysed and desire to stay wrapped up in the blanket called a comfort zone. Comfort zones are warm, cosy and inviting but it will never bring about the much needed change you need in life.

I have gone through several periods of change in my  life because I saw first hand what staying in a comfort zone does to someone. It was so painful to watch. This gifted individual began to give up on life, they found the blanket of their comfort zone too cosy and warm to leave,  which resulted in their God given gift becoming dormant and buried. They were afraid to change because change would challenge them to do something with their life and take responsibility for their current situation.

A comfort zone can actually assasinate your potential, so I urge you to put the gun down and unwrap yourself from that blanket.

Let me give you 3 things to consider to move from the fear of change to embracing change.

  1. Its important to understand that change is a risk you have to take in order to better yourself.
  2. Fear is False Evidence Appearing Real with the key word  being False.
  3. Conquering your fears positions you to enter your destiny.

 

I lived in so much fear when I was younger about a range of things, but I came to a point where I became tired of living that kind of life and my desperation pushed me to taking the steps to change. I also realised that my fear of change was linked to my low self esteem.

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There is only ONE you & that makes you unique

 

You are not one in a million, you are the only one on the planet. Comparing yourself to other people is such a waste of time because you have a unique vision and calling with a unique set of gifts and that makes you a rare gem.

Let me share with you as to why you are so unique and some important things that you need to remember:

1. No one else on the planet has your figures.

2. You have a unique set of tastes, experiences and life.

3. Appreciate your own uniqueness and the uniqueness in others and this will help to eliminate comparisons.

4. Do not get caught up in what people say about you as they only know a portion of your life and not everything.

5. You are an original so don’t be a poor photocopy of someone else.

Always remember you were born to shine in life and not to work in the shadow of someone else’s light.

Reach for the stars

How far have you reached in accomplishing your dreams and desires or is procrastination having the last word over you. What is the one thing that you are striving to reach for? How big is your dream?

I have heard it said a few times that the graveyard is the place with the most talent. It is talent that has never been discovered and dreams unfulfilled for whatever reason. What ever obstacle may be in your way continue to reach for that star and don’t give up until you have it. Continue to reach for your vision, practise, read, pray about it. What are others doing in that field? People may have told you that the area of your dream is over saturated and you are wasting your time, but you know what,  the fact that you have a dream in that area means there is room for you. How big is the music and film industry with so many stars in it and they will always welcome one more. How many clothing designers do we have and there is always room for one more. How many succesful authors do we have and there is always room for one more.

Dear butterfly ignore and stop sharing your vision and dreams with so-called friends who don’t belive in it. They were never your friend in the first place.  Keep reaching for what burns in your heart because the burning is a signal that it is attainable.

Keep reaching dear heart

You are not what you have been through

Every day people are called or  described by what they have been through. The bible talks of the woman with the issue of blood, we do not know her name. The deaf man, the blind man,  the boy who gave his lunch of 5 loaves and 3 fishes and the woman at the well,  to name a few.

People go through trauma’s that label them for life. Such statement like ” you know that woman who has 5 children who lives across the street” or ” that man who had the car accident last Tuesday” Have we ever thought of what their names are? On the other hand people can be described by the good things that have happened to them with statements like ” that man who won the lottery on the news” or ” that lady with the beautiful big brown eyes”.

If you have gone through pain, please know and belive that you are not the pain or trauma you have gone through. It is part of your experience and not your essence. A person who has to cross a river and becomes wet is not the river, they had to pass through it to get to the other side. The river was part of their experience and not their essence.

What have people described you as and which painful experience in your life have they used? Dear one you are not your experience, you are not the negative things people have called you at work, school or church?

Jesus calls you by your name because there is a uniqueness about you, you are one of a kind. Please do not allow your pain to become part of your mindset or entertain a belief of that’s how life is for me. No!!!!  Be transformed by the renewing of your mind because there is more to you than meets the eye and you are not your situations ans circumstances. Jesus came and died for you to be healed, to be loved and made whole and to be appreciated.

When I read my bible I continue to amazed about the love and care that Jesus had and still has. No body cares like he does, no body loves like he does! It is truly amazing. If he can care of the sparrow, can’t he care for you? Can you  receive his love and care! Dear one there is no one like Jesus. Put aside your philosophies about God and just open up your heart to him,  talk, share with him. Put your religion aside and embrace relationship with Jesus.

Dear one I have tried this and Jesus is turning a caterpillar into a beautiful butterfly for his glory!!

From one butterfly to another

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